⬅️ **[[Insta Videos]] | [[Liebe und Partnerschaft]]** *** # Liebe - Niceness vs Kindness ![[Liebe - Niceness vs Kindness.mp4]] Entdeckt am: 2024-10-25 Niceness vs kindness ... - take the other persons best interest as part of your own - Niceguys are **often super narcy** - profound narcistic people - instinct of self-preserve - as a female you can't be with the nice guy? - niceguy let the lion eat - Your throught for the sake of his own safety - I need you to like me so that I am safe. - Niceness - is an **adaptive strategy** designed **to keep you suffer** within the social stratosphere. - we gonna behave in the way that makes you like me so that I am safe -> thats nice - Kindness - comes from a much more roouted place where we are actual able to practice live - Love is to take the toher as a part of the self. - **I take you as part of me** - **If you are able to do that, you are able to take the other person best interest as part of your own.** - => not about you linking me, its about me acting for your best interest # *** Related: - [[%-Videos]]